Meghan MarkleandPrince Harryensured that every detail for theJuly 6 christeningof their son,Archie Harrison, was perfect — including choosing a close circle of loved ones to look after him as godparents.

But the decision was rooted not only in Harry and Meghan’s desire to protect the privacy of their 8-week-old son, but also the privacy of their friends and family.

“These are friends, private citizens, not celebrities or public figures,” a royal source tells PEOPLE in this week’s cover story. “Meghan and Harry wanted to protect them from the inevitable onslaught: ‘When did you meet them? How?’ That was the driving reason [to keep them private].

“It’s a very personal thing to ask somebody to be a godparent,” the source adds.

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Archie’s christening itself was anultra-private affair, from the setting (the Queen’s private chapel) to the guest list (only around 25 attendees) to the discreet arrivals.

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“It was just very, very low-key,” says a Windsor source. “You wouldn’t have even known it was going on. It was all very well thought through.”

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As for the couple’s decision to do things differently from past royal christenings, “this is not a couple that will conform if they don’t feel it’s right for them,” says an insider. “It’s that simple.”

source: people.com