Ariana Madix.Photo: Paul Archuleta/Getty

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 22: Reality TV Personality Ariana Madix attends the Give Them Lala & Friends VIP launch and viewing party at Shopify LA on February 22, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Paul Archuleta/Getty Images)

After what happed toAriana Madix, it’s no surprise that she may have developed some trust issues.

TheVanderpump Rulesstar opens up to PEOPLE exclusively about how themonths-long affairbetween her exTom Sandovaland her close friendRaquel Levissimpacted her view on future relationships, explaining that she’s hopeful she can allow herself again to put her faith in someone else.

“When this first happened, I really thought, ‘I don’t know how I can trust anyone again,” says Madix, 37, while promoting her new partnership withBIC EasyRinse razors. “A friend of mine — about 10, 11 days after I found out — encouraged me not to lose that part of myself; to still see the good in people, and to trust people, and to be loyal to my friends and my relationships. And I was kind of like, ‘Yeah, I don’t know about that…’ "

“But her saying that, and hearing that from others too, has really helped me move forward,” Madix adds. “I’m getting there, at my own pace.”

From left: Ariana Madix, Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss.Amanda Edwards/Getty; Emma McIntyre/WireImage; Charles Sykes/Bravo/Getty

Ariana Madix attends the Friends and Family Opening at Schwartz & Sandy’s with the cast of “Vanderpump Rules” at Schwartz & Sandy’s Lounge on July 26, 2022 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Amanda Edwards/Getty Images); Tom Sandoval arrives at the Los Angeles premiere of Universal Pictures’ ‘Jurassic World Dominion’ on June 06, 2022 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Emma McIntyre/WireImage); Raquel Leviss – (Photo by: Charles Sykes/Bravo via Getty Images)

“These are all sorts of heroes of mine. So it’s just really, really wild that they even know I exist on this planet,” Madix says. ““Going through this in the public eye has definitely added an aspect that makes it an additionally insane experience. But the support from the public has been really amazing and has meant the absolute world to me.”

With a newfound level of fame has also come new opportunities, including Madix’s partnership with BIC EasyRinse razors. It comes at “exactly the right time,” she says, the product’s patented unclogging technology not only resulting in a smoother shave with less irritation but also giving Madix a perfect metaphor for her life right now.

“It’s time for me to get free and unclogged,” Madix shares. “With so many exciting thing going on in my life, the last thing I want to do is be standing in my shower, banging my razor against the wall, wasting water trying to unclog. So in addition to unclogging my life, I’m also unclogging my razor with Bic. It’s very exciting.”

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She’s also in a new romance, with beauDaniel Wai, a fitness instructor she met through mutual friends at a wedding in Mexico just 10 days after Scandoval broke.

“He is very cute, and just the kindest person,” Madix tells PEOPLE of Wai. “I think that in so many ways, not just romantically, but professionally and on so many levels, it does feel like just a completely new and amazing energy right now.”

Ariana Madix and Daniel Wai.Ariana Madix/Instagram

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Earlier this month,Madix said onToday with Hoda and Jennathat she didn’t expect to find herself in a new relationship. “In no way shape or form did I go into that thinking anything,” she said. “And I’ve just been taking things very, very, slow and really enjoying myself.”

A source told PEOPLE, meanwhile, thatMadix is head over heelsfor Wai. “Ariana’s been telling people in her circle that she’s falling in love with him,” the insider shared, adding, “It’s happening faster than she thought but he treats her well, they’re having fun, and she’s happy to be moving on to this next chapter with such an incredible guy.”

And while Madix tells PEOPLE now still she’s not 100% right now, she does say she’s “feeling relief” in her life right now.

“It’s been a process to get there, and I know it’s not been very long, but it certainly feel like I’m coming out the other side and the trajectory is up,” says Madix. “Where I’m at right now, honestly — I’m at a point now where I just feel like I’m amazing. And I don’t think I ever thought that was possible.”

source: people.com